What is it.. to truly have you ?

Social media ... can it be your sugar daddy ?

Off late I have had so many conversations with my clients and friends , about how social media is becoming a cause of depression, rather than inspiration and a storehouse of knowledge that it was meant to be.

So while thinking about all this .. I was simply a question what is giving rise to all these tendencies, and what I got was that it somehow makes us look at the void in our lives and makes us experience it even more intensely, which we somehow wish to shut it off, because deep down we believe that we do not deserve all such goodies of life. And since we can’t have it we should not even desire it.

As desire for us has become synonymous with far fetched thing that we can never have, this gives rise to feelings like envy , frustration, avoidance etc.

Now as you know I don’t leave things be .. have to operate on it , so well I thought of turning it around and changing the question to how it can contribute in a social setup , we all are aware of the marketing usage but what about social setup that leads to healthy lifestyle and adds value to us, that’s how I developed a practice that we have been doin in flip the switch program that I designed, go on watching things that you like and make a folder saying I am having this and keep on adding stuff that you like in that folder with a belief that you have it and for those 5 minutes believe that Universe is your sugar daddy and all that you have in that folder is already with you, I know it doesn’t go with your logic, but I urge you, that for those 5 minutes of your day be a kid who loves to live in their imaginary world, after those 5 minutes you can return to your adult logical life if you so choose. So well keep practicing, we never know when magic actually happens.

Are you a multipotentialite too ?

So the other day I was just wondering, what makes me have so many interests and then I started looking around, and saw that there are a lot of people in my circle, who have varied interests. Then as I generally become a question around something that takes even slightest of my attention, so I started to unfurl this further .

And in this unfurling something really interesting showed up , what if all these varied interests are something that we have lived in some lifetime or some time dimension, yes I do consider a multiverse universe. I mean if everything is energy and we attract the energy we be then we must have experienced the vibration of that interest somewhere and as we keep shifting our energy in life, we attract various interests.

We go on thinking we have to learn more about the interest , what if we know much more than we think we do, all it really takes is having that courage to say to ourselves, I know and starting of with it and learning and exploring as things unfurl.

May be unfurling is the process of actual learning.

Humans ... what are we?

We humans are made of Thanatos and Eros instinct , that even in the time of pandemic what is soothing us is that the culprit is being punished , everywhere the news is showing how people who are  being blamed for this virus are being held guilty and there are actions being taken against them.

It’s like Thanatos instinct is something that drives us , Eros makes us happy but happiness doesn’t feed us , it’s the anger and hateret that feeds us. Somewhere I feel Thanatos instinct works on filling up the void that we all have , it’s like that void sort of starts showing up for humans in the absence of Eros instinct and Thanatos is something that fills it up and makes the void not visible anymore.

The monks who give up anger and hateret may be somewhere have gained access to the Eros in them and that’s why they can look at their voids and know how it’s was just a fiction of their mind. May be that’s what self love is all about . 

Celebrate winning a pin ?? .. are you serious !!

So often my clients wonder why I make them celebrate a smallest of their victories and often I am seen with the eyes of contempt, as if I am some looney , when I celebrate my smallest things , as small as my plant flowering for the first time or my baby Leo catching his first ball .

We humans are programmed to feel inadequate in every way, right from the start because once we reach our so desired goal we start looking for what’s next, forgetting you acknowledge what we have already achieved, and that feeling of achievement eludes us in that very moment. And that fleeting feeling is what never lets the void in us get filled.

Once we savour in our victory though knowing it’s a smallest the most minuscule thing, and though we find it absolutely ridiculous to be celebrating it, our subconscious mind registers that feeling and it leaves an imprint of success in our minds, which slowly keeps on expanding as we go on celebrating every small victory which further leads to the success mindset , and the achievement that we all are actually running after, becomes a constant state of life and living.

Which ultimately makes you a successful person, because no experience can come into your being unless you first invite it in .

And this reminds me I am yet to celebrate my achievement of starting to blog , and starting to write my book.

Ciao till something new springs up for me . 

Manifestation.. oh please give me a break !

So why is it that we have become so cynical about manifestations , when we know that our word has power and what we say shapes our universe , then why is it that for some people , it just works like magic and for some it becomes a source of frustration... ahhh did I hear you say they are lucky ?

Well that’s what even I use to think for far too long , but as I am exploring my downloads with flip the switch , I am getting that there’s more to this , than just luck . It’s somewhere the conditioning , that one is brought up with, if a child has a basic belief system of “man proposes and God disposes “ , then the belief system to believe in ones own word is laid on a faulty belief , that there is an angry God who is angry on you for some reason ( most commonly heard past life karma ) and so all the hardships are enlisted for you and that’s why you won’t get anything that you ever desired , and interestingly so , life too is created on that paradigm , which further fuels the belief to become a fixed point of view .

So where all have you been considering yourself unlucky and is it truly luck or is it a faulty belief system impregnated into you ?